Good man ISO Great woman

First name

David

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Intro: I was born and raised on Long Island, NY, in a well-to-do Jewish community with a great public school system (discovered in my first days in college). I have been a news junkie all my life, especially national political news.

Poli Sci was my first college major (even though I am a Geek by the grace of God). I have been a liberal Democrat since the KKK went Republican. I am open-minded to any good argument. Watching me argue with a MAGA Republican would make great theater. I live in Richmond, VA now, but I am flexible.

Religion: I am a “secular Jew" but increasingly observant. I am open to other religions when it comes to dating. Up to a point. If you chant, “Free Palestine from the river to the sea,” please move on.

Education: I am over-educated, an MA in English Lit despite literature not being a strong point. I have a logical and “scientific” mind, and I can be insufferable if you argue with me when you don’t know what you are talking about. Not everything is a matter of “opinion.” But, I am excruciatingly ignorant about most subjects and am smart enough to know when to shut up and listen and learn something new. I try to keep up with what’s going on in the world. I am the exception to "an old dog can't learn new tricks." Be warned, I'm an ex-pat NYer, so I can be a challenge (for the right woman, I will be worth the trouble!). I can be silly and serious, at the same moment. I believe in animal rights, I am a meat-eater, and I own and drive a gasoline powered automobile which makes me a damned hypocrite!

Sense of Humor: yes! Dry and quirky.

23AndMe says that I weigh 16 pounds less than the average man of my age and height. Go figure. I love a good hamburger more than a good steak. I love exotic cuisines, especially Indian, Greek, Thai, Turkish, Persian, pizza, tacos and a great hamburger. I love artichokes, asparagus, baked potatoes (the best excuses for the secret of French cooking, butter), ciabatta and olive oil, ice cream, chocolate and (Jewish) bacon above all else.

Entertainment: I own no TV. I borrow movie DVDs from my library.

I am a fan of Suggesting Rhythm, a Grateful Dead tribute band based in Richmond. I love live music. I attended half a dozen concerts of the Richmond Symphony this past season and will continue into the future. I raised myself on pre-pop music and love most of the classical classics. Dylan and Springsteen and Paul Simon. New found passion: Il Volo from Sicily.

Health: I am in better shape than most men in my cohort, by the grace of “god” (er, god genes and god luck).

Seasons: I like every season except the cold one (but I love snow). Grand lightning-filled thunderstorms make me come super-alive!

I am “retired” but always busy. I write a blog whose intent is making our "patriotic" citizens more patriotic!!! Search “Ben Paine blog”. Look me up there! Discover who I really am! Then contact me.

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 9 (1.75 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

My Hair Is

Grey

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

I keep kosher

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Politics / Government

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Nerd

My Social Behavior Is

Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Outgoing, Strange, Fire Starter

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Computers, Dining, Internet, Learning, Movies, Music, Reading, Theater, Travel, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Clubbing / Bars, Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Partying, Reading A Book, The Movies, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

a mutual "like". flirty, chatty, a little shy

I've Always Wanted To Try

Geeeez

My Religion Is

Reform

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

To change the world for the better

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic

On Tv, I Always Watch

I Don't Like Tv

My Idea Of Fun Is

Always?, always?, always?
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What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

Everything I want to say they object to

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed